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ADHD, Personal Hygiene, and the COVID-19 Pandemic

Fri, 03/27/2020 - 20:30
Some are scared that they will be the victim of their ADHD partner’s poor hygiene habits or risky behavior. They are correct to be anxious, but there are ways to improve things.

ADHD, Personal Hygiene and the COVID-19 Pandemic

Fri, 03/27/2020 - 20:30
Some are scared that they will be the victim of their ADHD partner’s poor hygiene habits or risky behavior. They are correct to be anxious, but there are ways to improve things.

The Best Valentine's Day Gift You Can Give If You Have ADHD

Tue, 02/11/2020 - 18:57
Valentine's Day is a tricky holiday for some with ADHD. But their partners are likely to want some version of the same thing. Here are some ideas that can work, even at the last minute.

The Best Valentine's Day Gift You Can Give if You Have ADHD

Tue, 02/11/2020 - 18:57
Valentine's Day is a tricky holiday for some with ADHD. But their partners are likely to want some version of the same thing. Here are some ideas that can work, even last minute.

When Both a Child and Partner Have ADHD but You Don't

Tue, 01/14/2020 - 10:00
A concerned mom from a family with two ADHD and two non-ADHD family members tries to figure out how to keep her family happy and healthy.

When Both a Child and Partner Have ADHD but You Don't

Tue, 01/14/2020 - 10:00
A concerned mom from a family with two ADHD and two non-ADHD family members tries to figure out how to keep her family happy and healthy.

Grieving the Relationship You Thought You Had, but Didn't

Thu, 09/12/2019 - 09:53
For many couples impacted by ADHD it's important to grieve the loss of romantic dreams in order to build something stronger and healthier. Here's one way to do it.

Grieving the Relationship You Thought You Had, but Didn't

Thu, 09/12/2019 - 09:53
For many couples impacted by ADHD it's important to grieve the loss of romantic dreams in order to build something stronger and healthier. Here's one way to do it.

6 Tips for Better Managing Time for Adults with ADHD

Mon, 07/08/2019 - 16:59
Time management is a common area of conflict for ADHD adults and those who love them. ADHD partners may think their partner should just "lighten up" but it's not that simple.

6 Tips for Better Managing Time for Adults with ADHD

Mon, 07/08/2019 - 16:59
Time management is a common area of conflict for ADHD adults and those who love them. ADHD partners may think their partner should just "lighten up" but it's not that simple.

In Relationships, Imposed Solutions Don’t Last

Mon, 06/03/2019 - 20:51
Frustrated adults are quick to tell their partners what they should be doing in order to get things done more quickly, but it's the wrong choice. Here's why.

In Relationships, Imposed Solutions Don’t Last

Mon, 06/03/2019 - 20:51
Frustrated adults are quick to tell their partners what they should be doing in order to get things done more quickly, but it's the wrong choice. Here's why.

Become an Influencer

Sun, 03/31/2019 - 10:55
Parent-child dynamics in ADHD relationships leave more organized partners in charge, but frustrated that they still aren't getting what they want. Here are 8 tips for getting more.

Become an Influencer

Sun, 03/31/2019 - 10:55
Parent/child dynamics in ADHD relationships leave more organized partners in charge...but frustrated...that they still aren't getting what they want. 8 tips for getting more.

Why Won't My Husband Stop Flirting?

Fri, 11/30/2018 - 18:54
It's not an affair, it's "just flirting." Yet it can hurt nonetheless. What's more, ADHD symptoms can complicate things further. Here are five strategies that can help.

Why Won't My Husband Stop Flirting?

Fri, 11/30/2018 - 18:54
It's not an affair, it's 'just flirting,' but it can hurt nonetheless. ADHD symptoms can make the situation even more complicated. Here are 5 strategies that can help.

Yes, You Should Schedule Your Partner In

Mon, 11/19/2018 - 22:53
Are you and your partner growing apart? Here is a simple way to fix that and start feeling more connected.

Yes, You Should Schedule Your Partner In!

Mon, 11/19/2018 - 22:53
Are you and your partner growing apart? Here is a simple way to fix that and start feeling more connected.

12 Ways to Safely Disagree

Mon, 07/16/2018 - 16:10
Do you and your partner fight a lot? Are you hiding your feelings because you fear your partner's response? It's time to practice skills that will keep your disagreements calm.

12 Ways to Safely Disagree

Mon, 07/16/2018 - 16:10
Do you and your partner fight a lot? Are you hiding your feelings because you fear your partner's response? It's time to practice skills that will keep your disagreements calm.

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