Forum topic: Going to my diagnosis app today

I'm going to my diagnosis app today. 
I know I have ADHD or feel i do. but am a bit worried that I don't have all the systems.
Actually I might have just found ways in my adult life to take these symptoms into account. 

I clip my key ring to my belt immediately.
I use lists to stay organized

 I'm bit worried, what if I'm miss diagnosed? 
What if i really am selfish and lazy?

I guess I will have to wait and see

Comments

I hope you can explain to the doctor that you have been thinking about whether you have ADHD for a long time - a good doctor will want to hear your childhood story and about your wider family too. Let us know how things go, whatever the outcome.

I give you so much credit for being willing to take this step! Best wishes!!!

My soul has dwelt too long with one who hates peace. Psalm 120:6

Thanks When I was called up she asked what I was here for today. I told her I feel I have ADD or ADHD. She said we don't call it ADD anymore its all ADHD either inattentive or hyperactive or both. Which do you feel you have? Your a bit old to get diagnosed. I told her I have adapted well, I don't lose my keys anymore because I clip them to my belt. I stay organised by making lists. always thought it wasn't a problem but apparently it is. She said so you and then read off a list of symptoms. I nodded yes. Do you have anxiety or depression? No Are you taking any meds? No Do you smoke? No Are you allergic to anything? No have you ever thought about harming yourself or others? No. My I take your blood pressure? Yes Will you take a urine test? Yes OK What pharmacy do you use? Publix. Please wait in the next room. I'll prescribed wellbutron and an apt in 2 weeks if its not working for you and you pass your urine test Ill prescribe something else. I was reading the book after my apt. And read the part about get a good diagnosis. I felt cheated

I am so sorry. I agree that you were cheated. However, that does not detract from the fact that you are on the road toward your goal of addressing the issues in your life! You did well! The appointment my husband has scheduled is with a doctor whk specializes in complete assessment, requiring 4 hours of interview and testing. You can still pursue such a process if you want. It really is a good beginning. You have a medication to try and if you discover that it's not the best one, you can ask for something different. Keep educating yourself and never give up. You are worth the best eval and treatment available!

My soul has dwelt too long with one who hates peace. Psalm 120:6

20GT, I wouldn't worry or feel cheated, the important thing is to try to keep moving forward. My husband was in/out of his first appt in less than an hour and basically ran through a checklist and rambled on a bit about his history. Maybe it was that obvious to the doctors for both him and you!. My husband felt it was surprised at the time as he had no idea what to expect going in and it was all something of an anticlimax.

"She said we don't call it ADD anymore its all ADHD either inattentive or hyperactive or both"

That's correct as far as I know, 'they' don't seem to call it ADD any more.

Well done, you really did take a big step.

You have taken such a big step to make the appointment.

I so wish my husband would do the same.

 

I really wanted a good diagnosis because I'm worried, What if I only think I love her. What if Im actually comfortable in my house don't want my life to change and this ADD stuff is just in my head. After 11 years I know we are not IN love. But we do love each other.

what is this is just a convenient excuse and i really don't change. maybe these meds are making me paranoid

Are you taking Wellbutrin and feeling more anxiety? Don't panic but make a call to your doctor's office to see if you can discuss it. Wellbutrin can cause anxiety and that may or may not wear off. (My husband tried it and it wasn't for him, just to let you know that everyone really is individual) I really suggest you try to get a call in to your doctor to get reassurance or guidance if this is a sudden change that has happened since taking the med you were prescribed. If you had anxiety before then it's possible it worsned it. You've been through a big change in your life by getting to that first appt, may be it is a delayed reaction.

The question about whether you love your wife will still be there with or without medication. Next time you see your doctor you might discuss with her if she thinks you will benefit from counselling and she might be able to recommend who you could see. You're at the start of a process, you have to keep putting one foot in front of the other.

I agree with Sunlight about the possibility of anxiety being a side effect of that particular med. I hope that you will contact the doc's office! Take care and try to be patient. I wish all the answers could become clear at once, but this surely requires alot of patience. Cheering you on from here!

My soul has dwelt too long with one who hates peace. Psalm 120:6

Update. its been over two weeks, mot feeling a thing from these meds.

wondering if they are sugar pills. went to Dr yesterday, told her the same thing. she said fill this out while ask the Dr if you can have a stimulate. (I thought she was the Dr) so I started filling out this ADHD questioneer. It seemed to be all the question that should have been asked at my diagnoses. I'm almost done when the Dr comes in ask why I think I have ADHD. I told him because my wife tells me so' also that i would lose stuff if i didn't put it in its proper place immediately. then I mentioned that I never sought treatment because those were just effects on me. It wasn't until i read this article about ADHD and relationships that exactly explained what was going on with my wife. He nodded the talked to the lady. she said we will start you off in the middle dosage that way we can go up or down. I finished the questions and happened to flip it over and said "oh theses allot more." She responded oh you can take that home and finish it if you like just bring it back in a month for your next visit. 

Often makes careless mistakes and lacks attention to details (Examples: overlooking or missing details or handing in work that is inaccurate)
Often has difficulty paying attention to tasks or while playing (Examples: difficulty remaining focused during lectures, conversations, or lengthy readings)
Often does not seem to listen when spoken to directly(Example: mind seems elsewhere, even in the absence of obvious distraction)
Often fails to follow through on instructions, chores or duties in the workplace(Example: starts tasks but quickly loses focus and is easily sidetracked)
Often has difficulty organizing tasks and activities(Examples: messy, disorganized work; poor time management; fails to meet deadlines)
Often avoids, dislikes or is reluctant to participate in tasks requiring sustained mental effort like preparing reports, completing forms or reviewing lengthy papers
Often loses things like tools, wallets, keys, paperwork, eyeglasses or mobile phones
Often easily distracted by other things including unrelated thoughts
Often forgetful in daily activities such as running errands, returning calls, paying bills and keeping appointments

Often fidgets with or taps hands and feet or squirms in seatOften leaves seat when remaining seated is expected(Examples: leaves their place in the office or other workplace or in other situations that require remaining seated)

Often runs or climbs where it is inappropriate or feels restless (In adolescents or adults, may be limited to feeling restless)

Often unable to participate in leisure activities quietly
Often acts as if “on the go" or “driven by a motor”(Examples: is unable or uncomfortable being still for an extended time, as in meetings or restaurants)
Often talks excessively
Often blurts out an answer before a question has been fully asked (Examples: completes people’s sentences, cannot wait for next turn in conversation)
Often has difficulty waiting their turn, for example while waiting in line
Often interrupts or intrudes on others (Examples: butts into conversations, games or activities; may start using other people’s things without asking or receiving permission; may intrude into or take over what others are doing

 

I think that you are doing a most excellent job of pursuing help! What do you think of the list of symptoms posted by c ur self? My husband could respond Yes to each and every one, and then some.  It kinda sounds like anxiety is at the forefront of what you are expressing here. As a highly anxious person myself, I know how painful and frustrating that can be!  I don't know who you could contact in your area for a more comprehensive review of what may most benefit you, but I am hoping that you can connect with a good counselor who might steer you in the right direction. Did they tell you how long it might take for your prescription to take noticeable effect?  Can you ask a trusted friend whether or not they notice any change in behavior patterns?  From what I've read, it can require several attempts to find the best medication, so it doesn't sound like that part of your experience is unusual at all. Please continue to share your concerns and experiences and I bet you'll find the answers you need!

My soul has dwelt too long with one who hates peace. Psalm 120:6

I am familiar with these questions.

about half are yes, i have made work around to these though.

lists, ect

I'm not really feeling anxiety