My partner was diagnosed with ADHD in her forties a couple of years ago, she has struggled with this and we split up for some time after her diagnosis due to her headspace and feeling she couldn’t give the time or effort to a relationship. We got back together a year ago and she is now questioning our relationship but acknowledges she doesn’t know why. She loves me but can’t articulate her feelings. She recognizes it’s related to ADHD, but I’m unsure how to support her or help her communicate.
She keeps pushing me away further and disengaging from the relationship over the last month or two. We don’t live together and aren’t soending time together currently, not through a lack of trying on my part but she keeps me at arms length and doesn’t engage. There’s no real help or advice for this online so hoping to hear others experiences/advice.
